SIX FALSE BELIEVES MANIFESTED BY PEOPLE WITH WRONG MENTALITY


The individual is constantly engaged in attempts to have others acknowledge his or her superiority, which if threatened, is defended vigorously. If the defence is unsuccessful, anxiety and depression result. The following six false beliefs are manifested by people with wrong mentality:
• I must control others.
• I am superior to others.
• I should not compromise.
• I suffer from more frustrations than do others.
• I must strive to be perfect.
• Others cannot be trusted.
The special person’s constant efforts to control, his attitudes of superiority, his refusal to compromise, his masked hostilities, and his empty perfectionism betray the highly competitive person who must have his own way and must be right at all costs. The failure to trust others is manifested by suspiciousness which may verge on the paranoid. Other characteristics of the ‘special person’ are a highly critical attitude towards others, little empathy with others, lack of insight about the self, and selfrighteousness. Over-indulgence in childhood may be the cause, although other sources may--- to be continue………………
J. D. RIMAMSHONG
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